Suite Index
What's Actually Live
The official list of what’s built today. If something is listed here, it’s live and ready to use. If it isn’t listed, it isn’t live yet. Looking for where to begin? See which part of the program to use.
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All of it is free for everyone.
Every page, tool and chapter is open to everyone, with no sign-up, no account and no paid version. That includes the whole book, the ten workpapers, both calculators, the Lemonade Stand, Today’s Weather, the Wiring Card, the Chat analyzer, the Carrier Wave Decoder, the Wired Differently, Check-ins, Turning Toward and Complacency guides, the Program Overview and a printable infographic. Also free: the Five Pillars, Know your own wiring, the Re-check Drive, the Professor’s Library, the long form of “Is the setup working for everyone?” for 2–8 people, the articles page, the quest map, Drift and the calm games. Each has its own page on the site.
Dig deeper: where to start -
The book has 26 chapters in three parts, and an afterword.
Part One (three chapters) is about you. Part Two (the Preface and Chapters I to V) is about sharing a life, a home or work. Part Three (seventeen chapters) is about how people work. The afterword pulls it together. Each chapter has its own page, in a short and a full version, all free to read. You can also read the whole book on one page, then print it or save it as a PDF.
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Ten workpapers are live.
Workpapers are worksheets you fill in: Who did what, How much are you carrying?, One owner per job, What keeps coming back?, Say it so it lands, the Calm-Down Kit, the 90-second daily check-in, Same moment, different speeds, Is it us, or is it everything else? and Keep your little rituals alive (WP-01, 02, 03, 04, 09, 11, 13, 12, 14 and 15). All of them are free and open. The numbers have gaps because they come from an early plan; only finished ones are listed. Fill any of them in on screen or as a fillable PDF, or do the first seven together in the Workpaper Suite, in the order that fits your relationship.
Dig deeper: each workpaper and when to use it -
Use them in order, not all at once.
Who did what first, then How much are you carrying?, One owner per job, Say it so it lands and the 90-second daily check-in, with What keeps coming back? once a month and the Calm-Down Kit whenever either of you is too wound up to talk. If you are new, start with Who did what and keep one week of it before touching anything else.
Dig deeper: the order and where to start -
Two calculators, one record, one program.
Is the setup working for everyone? gives a single read on whether the way you split the work can last. Look back over 30 days shows what shifted in a month, what didn’t, and one next step. Your progress, week by week keeps your weekly record. Six gentle weeks walks you through, one worksheet a week.
Dig deeper: the calculators and the program -
More may follow.
Each new piece is added to this list the day it is finished, not before. The Content Roadmap shows what comes next.
Dig deeper: what comes next
Try this: If you’re new, begin with Who did what and keep one week of it before touching anything else.