Work on it together

Fill in a tool on your own phone, then pass it back and forth with someone: by QR code, a text message, an email or any chat app. Each of you adds your own part, and you can put your results side by side.

🔒Nothing is stored on our side. Your answers travel inside the link, after the # sign, which a browser never sends to any website. Anyone with the link can read what is in it, so send it only to the people it’s for.

Send yours back ↓

Share my results

Several of your results in one link, so someone can see each one next to theirs. From the tools: your Wave Code, your care card, your quick look at who does what, and more. From the workpapers: how much you’re carrying, your list of owners, your rituals, and more. Only what this device holds shows up below, and you tick exactly what goes in. Nothing is ticked for you.

Tools you can do together

Each of these has a “Work on this together” part or a Send button. You each fill in your own part; nobody’s answers overwrite anyone else’s, and it works for three or more of you too.

• The Lemonade Stand: who does what at home, with where you see it differently picked out.
• The weekly check-in card and the family plan card.
• Wavelength, the communication style quiz: two Wave Codes side by side.
• The Wiring Card: two cards side by side.
• The care card and your touchstone list.
• Talk it through in writing: a message and a reply, each in its own link.
• The room agreement, the time-together deal and our week on one page.
• Today’s weather, side by side, only if you both choose to.

Workpapers you can fill in together

The fill-in workpapers are worksheets, separate from the tools above. On each one, “Share this” sends your sheet as a link; the other person opens it on the same workpaper and chooses to combine it with theirs, matched by name, with a choice wherever the two differ.

• WP-01 Who did what
• WP-02 How much are you carrying? (both loads side by side, with the gap)
• WP-03 One owner per job
• WP-04 What keeps coming back
• WP-12 Same moment, different speeds
• WP-13 The 90-second daily check-in
• WP-14 Is it us, or is it everything else?
• WP-15 Keep your little rituals alive

What travels, and what doesn’t

• Only what you choose to send. A link holds your part as it is when you send it; after a change, send a new one.
• Private things are never offered by default: today’s weather and anything you wrote for one person only go if you tick them yourself, and they’re marked “private”.
• What someone sends you stays in that tab, unless you tick “Keep on this device”. “Clear what you received” removes it.
• Very long links don’t fit in a QR code or a text message. Then you can copy it as a code, or send it by email.

More about what stays on your device: On this device.