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Pick the closest one. It leads to a short list of small steps.

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Name the feeling

Notice, and try it with someone
  • NoticeNotice where a feeling shows up first, such as your shoulders, your chest or your jaw.
  • Try it with someoneEach share one feeling word at dinner. The only reply is “Thanks for telling me.”

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See how brains work differently

Tap a brain and watch it change. Pick autistic, ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, OCD or dyslexia, and see where research finds differences on average, what that can feel like from the inside, and what helps. People overlap far more than they differ.

Open the Brain Map How to read it

An idea from the book

Nobody has to be wrong.

Two radios that both work perfectly will still crackle if they’re slightly off, and arguing about whose fault the static is won’t clear it.

From the book: Chapter I: Why we get out of tune

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Book 1: Know Yourself Kindly Book 2: Heal and Steady Book 3: Understanding Each Other Book 4: Share the Load

Who made this

I’m Christian. I spent my career as a government auditor, and the problems were almost never the ones anybody could see. They were the jobs nobody had written down. Homes work the same way, so I built a place to write them down, and then added games, because nobody should have to be serious all day.

It’s free, I run it myself, and nothing you type leaves your device. Read my story.