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What keeps coming back?

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This worksheet puts Pillar II (“Fix the setup, not the person”) to work, with a nod to Pillar V, Notice the quiet incentives. In you: you look for what in the setup lets things slip, instead of blaming yourself. Between you and others: repeat problems get fixed in the setup, and you catch jobs quietly drifting back to one person.

Purpose: a monthly look-back, done together. You look across four weeks of WP-01 logs (who did what) (WP-01) and your job list (WP-03) to find the tasks that keep slipping. (Here, a "deficit" simply means a job that needed doing and didn't get done.) The goal is not to tally what either of you "owes." It's to find where the household's setup needs a real fix, instead of another one-off patch.

How often: monthly. Not weekly, because this audit looks for patterns you can't see from one week to the next.

What keeps coming back, so far

Part A — Gather the month's notes

From your four weekly WP-01 logs (who did what), list every task that was logged as noticed but not done, or done only after being raised more than once, in any week this month.

Task Week 1 Week 2 Week 3 Week 4 Times flagged this month

Put a check in a week's box if the task was noticed as a gap that week (not done, or raised more than once before it got done). A task flagged 3–4 times this month is a real pattern, not a fluke.

Part B — Sort each gap

For every task flagged twice or more, decide which of these it actually is:

Task Has a named owner? (WP-03) Classification Action
Y / N Structural gap | Capacity issue | One-off, no action
Y / N Structural gap | Capacity issue | One-off, no action

Part C — Wrap up the audit

  1. Update the job list (WP-03) for every task sorted as a structural gap.
  2. For anything sorted as a capacity issue, set a time for that conversation. This audit brings it to light, but it doesn't replace the real conversation.
  3. Below, record how many structural gaps you found this month. A count that falls month after month is the clearest sign this program is working. A rising count means something bigger changed, and it may need its own conversation.
Month Structural gaps found Capacity issues found One-offs

What this audit is not for

☐ We’re agreed on this. Look at this again on: ____________

Feeds into: the ownership clarity score (how many jobs have an owner) used by “Is the setup working for everyone?” (Chapter II). A month with fewer unresolved structural gaps should show up as a higher score the following month.