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Type your entries on screen and download a finished PDF to keep. Sharing a house? Start with the Lemonade Stand to see the split and the bills, then One owner per job (WP-03) for the fridge list, then a weekly 10-minute house meeting (the weekly version of the 90-second check-in, WP-13). Only if you still disagree about who does what, add a week of Who did what (WP-01). For a couple, work through them in order: Who did what (WP-01) first, then How much are you carrying? (WP-02), One owner per job (WP-03), Say it so it lands (WP-09), the Calm-Down Kit (WP-11) and the 90-second daily check-in (WP-13), with What keeps coming back? (WP-04), the monthly look-back, once a month. When you want more: Same moment, different speeds (WP-12) for a gap in pace, Is it us, or is it everything else? (WP-14) for a heavy week, and Keep your little rituals alive (WP-15) every few months. Each one also comes as a fillable PDF you can type into on your phone or print.
These are easiest on a laptop or desktop. A week of entries is quicker with a keyboard, and a finished PDF is simpler to save, find and print on a computer. They work on a phone too; your entries stay on that device.
New · Workpaper Suite Do them all, in the order that fits your road. Pick who it’s for: just you, partners, family, co-parents, friends, roommates, coworkers, caregivers, or the 6-week program. Fill in the sheets, bring in your drafts, and get one fillable PDF, plus a report grouped the way your road goes. Build my suite →Want every page for your road in one fillable PDF, and one comprehensive report? Try the Full path package. It runs on your device; nothing you type or choose is sent anywhere.
Your entries never leave your device. Nothing you type into these worksheets is sent anywhere. Nothing is stored unless you turn on “Keep a draft on this device” on a worksheet, and you can erase it any time. Otherwise the only copies are the files you choose to download.
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- WP-01Who did what Write down what actually happened this week, before anyone starts remembering it as a story. Part B, Kind ways to say no, is optional.freefree
- WP-02How much are you carrying? (A higher score means a heavier load.) A short checklist that each of you fills in about yourself. It separates "How much stress am I already carrying?" from "How upset am I about this one thing?" It is not a clinical test, just a structured gut-check.freefree
- WP-03One owner per job Who owns which job, for a household, a team, or a family sharing someone’s care: every regular job gets one owner, with an optional helper.freefree
- WP-04What keeps coming back? The monthly look-back, done together, across four weeks of Who did what (WP-01) and One owner per job (WP-03).freefree
- WP-09Say it so it lands A self-check each of you uses on your own side of a conversation: turning a raw reaction into something the other person can take in, and weighing a message before you react to it.freefree
- WP-11The Calm-Down KitA short plan, made on a calm day, for settling your body before a hard conversation, or putting it off honestly.freefree
- WP-12Same moment, different speeds When one of you wants to sort it now and the other needs time: each person’s speed in five everyday moments, the gaps, and one small agreement.freefree
- WP-13The 90-second daily check-in A daily check-in that keeps two people in step with small, steady corrections instead of occasional big ones.freefree
- WP-14Is it us, or is it everything else? A one-week log that keeps outside pressure (work, money, sleep, illness) apart from friction between you, and ends in a plan for the pressure.freefree
- WP-15Keep your little rituals alive Every few months: which shared rituals are alive, fading or stopped, one to restart in its smallest form, and one to let go with thanks.freefree