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Who really does what at home? Find out in 2 minutes, together.

Each of you taps who mostly does each job. Then you see where you agree, and the few jobs you see differently.

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Who mostly does it? One tap each. Nothing is sent anywhere.

The full quick look: about a dozen everyday jobs, no hours or numbers. “Send to your partner” makes a link, so they answer on their own phone and you see both views side by side.

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Check again in a week

See if the split moved. Your answers stay on this device, so the quick look opens where you left it.
The fridge list

One owner per job, so nobody has to keep asking. Print it or keep it on your phone.
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Why this helps

Each of you answers on your own, so nobody is swayed by the other’s answers.
You probably agree on most jobs. The fight is usually about the few you see differently, and now you can see which ones.
The invisible thinking work counts: noticing what’s running low, planning the week, remembering dates.

Good to know

Free. No sign-up to use the tools.
What you type stays on your device.
A way to talk, not a score or a verdict on anyone.
Research-informed, with honest limits and the sources.
Made by Christian. Who built this, and why

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