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Check a text before you send it.
For anything tense: to a partner, family, a friend or work. In a few seconds, see how it may land.
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Say it so it lands
A short worksheet for the harder conversations: what you need, in words they can hear.
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What it looks for
- Words that can sting: “always” and “never”, name-calling, sarcasm and digs.
- Blame and guesses about why they did it, and old arguments brought back in.
- Your ask: whether it’s clear what you want, and by when. The clearer version keeps it.
What it can’t know: it reads the words only. It can’t hear your tone, see a face or know your history together, and the same words can be warm between two people and cutting between two others. Treat it as a second opinion, not a verdict.
Good to know
- Free. No sign-up to use the tools.
- What you type stays on your device. Nothing is saved or sent.
- Plain, written-out rules you can read for yourself.
- Research-informed, with honest limits and the sources.
- Made by Christian. Who built this, and why
More you can do here
A whole chat or a screenshotAdd a back-and-forth and see where it turned, and calmer replies.Open the Chat analyzer
The logic behind itWhy words land the way they do, one reaction at a time.Read the pocket guide
Ask Professor PuddlesSay what’s going on in your own words, and get kind next steps.Ask him
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